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Between FIRE and YOLO: A Millennial’s Dilemma & Useful Tips on Saving & Splurging

Happy New Year, family!

Welcome to a new year and decade of hope, prosperity and abundance. Tis the season we assess our lives, strategize for the year regarding careers, finance, relationships, self care, and every life part that makes us a whole person.

This year, I am focusing more on my finances as a career woman and Millennial: savings, retirement, income streams etc, but at the same time, I love the finer things of life and treat myself if and when I can. After all, you only live once – YOLO!

Being the introspective Capricorn, I’m musing on the dilemma Millennials experience between actively saving for home ownership and retirement as well as prioritizing our well-being. This post helps to draw a balance between both and hopefully, we crush this Cirque du Soleil financial balancing act.

 

What is FIRE? Do you mean fire, as in flames?

No beloved.

I mean FIRE aka financial independence, retire early, which encourages Millennial saving and investing – between 50-75% of income – to retire in your 30s and mid-40s.

Now, you read this and laugh maniacally because you struggle to save 15% monthly with all that Millennial debt load, but there are hundreds of laser focused Millennials and Xennials performing this aggressive saving and investing method to retire debt free with enough savings to not have to work. Goalssss!!

If you are keen on this FIRE train, there are a few steps to take up this ladder, but do them according to your lifestyle and comfort level. I cannot say that I’m firmly on the FIRE train but in the past year, I increase my millennial savings but also splurge on my pleasure spots. You see my dilemma?

 

Between FIRE and YOLO: Dilemma on Saving & Splurging

#Reduce Debt Load

The average American Millennial has an $8,000 net worth, less than $5,000 in savings and earns $35,000. What is missing in these stats? You got it…Millennial debt load. The list of debt goes on and on from student loans, credit card debt to medical debt, car and personal loans.

Student loans are the most common loans with millennials with these loans being the second largest in the U.S. ($1.52T) after mortgage loans. The average student loan debt per person is a little over $31,000, and tuition costs keep rising.

Furthermore, credit runs America and the ease with which college students receive credit cards is staggering. Granted, some have no choice but to live on credit cards thus increasing debt load and reducing credit score.

Here, you require a credit score for apartment applications and it is part of a background check when employers or anyone run a search, and a high debt load has been known to scare prospective employers and even partners. For better or worse? Apparently not, when it comes to finances.

So, how can you reduce your millennial debt load?

  • Consolidate student loans. Reach out to your loan provider(s) to work out repayment plans for some or all loans. I consolidate my grad school loans 3 years ago to a manageable monthly payment that gives me extra dollars in savings.
  • Pay off high-interest credit cards. Some prefer paying off high balance cards; either method, prioritize a number and stick to it. I finally pay off a credit card in December 2019 by throwing $500 at it and I feel so light.

Start with these chunks and get them under control as they are the crux to achieving FIRE and reducing millennial debt load.

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Updated April 2020

In light of the covid-19 pandemic, many people have lost jobs and income and 1 in 4 Americans were unable to make April rent with rent confidence decreasing into May and subsequent months. With developed nations giving citizen bailouts – U.S. citizens are receiving a $1,200 stimulus package – what will you invest your money in?

You can choose to spend your stimulus funds this way:

  • Pay down high interest or high balance credit card debt

  • Invest all in a Roth IRA and purchase lucrative stock for cheap

  • Increase emergency savings OR start one if you have none

  • Split the funds: squirrel $600 into emergency savings and $600 to pay down debt

These are very strange times and not the time to splurge on big budget items. For those of us still lucky to draw salary, do not be lulled into a false sense of security. Reduce spending and save more.

The severe economic impact of covid-19 is still unravelling and will have repercussions for years to come. See how long it took people to recover after the 2007-2009 recession?

Invest that $1,200 wisely!

 

Between FIRE and YOLO: Dilemma on Saving & Splurging

Create A Budget…and Stick To It!

I know, it’s hard.

So many things to splurge on and not enough money to do so. Sigh. Have discipline, brethren, and create a simple budget with Excel. At this point in your life, you can make a pie chart, so… itemize all overheads to include utilities, rent, phone, food, miscellaneous, and deduct from your salary.

There are apps for this but head over to Nerd Wallet for their review of the best budgeting apps. I have a simple Excel pie chart and I know my remainder dollars after each fortnightly wage. Having a representation of your budget helps in knowing where major expenses are and how you can reduce them to increase savings.

This is what I do: I know what my main monthly payments are – electricity, gas, internet, phone, student loans – and I have a separate account for these where I transfer money to monthly from my main account. Summer is tricky because of a/c use and electricity cost increase but I try not to let it skyrocket.

Since these bills are on direct debit from a separate account, that leaves rent and savings from my primary account. Now, I’m not professing perfection by saying I stick to my budget wholesomely because I sometimes eat out, travel and indulge in experiences, but I know that if I splurge one month, I have to be diligent in upcoming months. Budgeting helps in reducing millennial debt load.

Either way, I don’t skimp on saving and we’ll get to that below.


 

Between FIRE and YOLO: Dilemma on Saving & Splurging

Don’t Deprive You of Life’s Pleasures

It is easy to get carried away with aggressive budgeting and saving but please, leave room for life’s pleasures.

After all, YOLO, and you don't want to regret not experiencing life all because you are literally counting pennies. Many millennials on the FIRE track resort to ridiculous methods of saving money and reducing expenses. Click To Tweet

Some of these methods are absolutely frightful, such as turning off heat in deep winter, wearing $20 threadbare shoes, having a $25 entertainment budget or no social life at all. These millennials pull in 6 figures and save at least 50% of their take home pay so one would think that a new pair of winter boots wouldn’t break the bank…but apparently, it can throw you off your FIRE track. Tragic!

Am I up for this brutal self-denial?

Absolutely not! For those who follow me, you know that I love to solo travel and often do so, but I aggressively research affordable tickets, penny-pinch for expensive cities, travel during off-peak season and do hostel stays to reduce expenses. As much as I actively save and reduce expenses, I cannot go without survival basics, like winter gear and heat.

Figure out affordable pleasures you can manage without breaking the bank and stick to it.

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Between FIRE and YOLO: Dilemma on Saving & Splurging

Save Aggressively As Your Lifestyle Can Manage

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A typical Millennial savings is less than $5,000, and I wonder what the number is for our counterparts in developed countries. Is it similar to the U.S. or are you better off? I know that regarding tuition, European and Canadian millennials fare much better than us Stateside. Sigh.

An MIT research states that if you want to live off half of your salary by the standard retirement age of 65, you need to save 40% of income over the next 30 years. Hah! The standard savings recommendation is 15% of income but I can assure you that not many Millennials are doing that let alone the 40% rate MIT recommends. Oh boy! We’re in deep…

Despite a high Millennial debt load, many Millennials still stick to their budgets, but other than increasing income and living from hand to mouth, these are some useful tips to buttress savings and/or supplement income.

  • First, I hope everyone has online savings not from conventional banks and without a bank card. Savings from conventional banks are at a pitiful rate of bubkiss dot zero one percent so why do you still have your money there, brethren??
  • Switch to high yield online savings like Marcus, (no affiliate), and get up to 1.70% APY. It used to be over 2% but with the lowering of interest rates in 2019, it was slashed. Still, it is higher than conventional bank savings.
  • Contribute to a 401k, Roth, or other savings and investment vehicle. My previous job offered no 401k so I bit the bullet and opened a Roth IRA where I regularly save and invest in ETFs. My current position offers a 401k and I’m going to be honest and say that I do not save 15%, but I plan on upping it with an upcoming raise.
  • Have separate emergency savings preferably in a high yield interest account. A minimum of 6 months of expenses is advised to buttress against job loss etc. but how many Millennials have that?
  • Download Acorns, link your cards to invest spare change in the market. I have this app and with round-ups, currently have $500. Use Acorns referral link to get on the Millennial saving and investing train sans deprivation.
  • Another fave app is Rakuten where I regularly receive cashback on products and services. For example, I use Expedia to book a hostel for my last Amsterdam solo travel and receive over $30. Use Rakuten referral link to receive $10 when you spend $25 on products & services.
  • I know other millennials that actively coupon but that is something I do not do. If you’re an expert at this, more power to you.
  • Cut the cord and stream everything. Put that spare $140 to emergency savings and find a friend you can borrow Netflix or HBO from.
  • Curate memberships to see what is still useful to your lifestyle. When was the last time you went to that pricy gym? Cancel it. Receive too many subscription boxes that have lost their allure? Suspend them and put those dollars to emergency or retirement.

 

Between FIRE and YOLO: Dilemma on Saving & Splurging

You Can Cheap Splurge At Home Too

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“Splurging” on a cheap day trip to Roosevelt Island from NYC

 

As we balance FIRE and YOLO, let’s not forget to have fun in our own backyard. Depending on your city or town, there are many affordable & free things to do for entertainment. I’m so blessed to live in NYC where there are free activities, like lounging by the seaport, Governor’s Island, Roosevelt Island, self-guided tours, affordable food and free movies.

Find similar in your town or city by accessing the tourist site, if available. Buying a latte won’t get you off an aggressive saving and investing track but if your latte run is twice daily for a year, those add up significantly. Everything in moderation.

 

Between FIRE and YOLO: Dilemma on Saving & Splurging

Renting & Home Ownership

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The main way a millennial can reduce expenses for aggressive saving and investing is by reducing or eliminating rent.

Ideally, rent should be one-third of income but that fraction is laughable as many easily pay up to 70% of income as rent. This tragedy is more pronounced in NYC, Boston, San Francisco and San Diego, where rents are so expensive that older individuals still room share.

It’s easier to tell people to move but while cost of living might be lower, there are trade-offs when you move. E.g. I live in NYC and moving to a cheaper Midwestern city means buying a car (and associate costs), no reliable public transport, much lower salary (nahhh), limited cultural activities, etc. Like I say, I enjoy life to the best of my pocket and cannot make this compromise. Hello dilemma!

If you’re not fortunate to live with family rent free, grit your teeth and house share for a third of the cost of a studio. Sure, you will share amenities and come closing to throwing hands with filthy housemates, but… you will save precious dollars to store in emergency savings.

There is a way for millennial homeowners to pay off mortgages in record time and that is via house hacking – buying a house, renting out rooms and living a minimalist lifestyle. Many millennial homeowners use this method to pay off the mortgage, invest in a second property, pay off student loans or even become digital nomads.

I think the ends justify the means on this one and is no different to Air bnbing your apartment for the weekend while you stay with friends or family.

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That was a read, wasn’t it!

Seriously, 2020 is the year we take control of our finances and reduce Millennial debt load because, the times, they are a-changing.

Click to Resources for a list of the financial and cashback apps I mention and start socking those coins for the future!

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44 Comments

  • Reply
    Cherrie Bautista
    January 12, 2020 at 4:46 am

    Really valuable tips. I have a daughter that will start college this year, this will help her get a head start!

    • Reply
      admin
      January 12, 2020 at 5:05 am

      Yes! How I wish I knew of Roth when I started college. I would’ve had a sizeable chunk right now. Let her open a Roth on E Trade etc and put in holiday and summer job money…and you can add a few here and there to buy stocks and ETFs for dividends.

  • Reply
    Michael
    January 13, 2020 at 3:53 pm

    Sticking to a budget needs reeeeaaaal discipline. So hard to do but when your system is used to it. It becomes easier and easier

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    Karla
    January 14, 2020 at 1:25 am

    Now this is something every millennial should read. I don’t have much savings but I am debt free. Now, I’m thinking about investing my savings for the future.

  • Reply
    Viano Dee
    January 14, 2020 at 4:54 am

    These are really valuable tips. There needs to be a balance when it comes to savings and spending. Great post.

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    Khushboo
    January 14, 2020 at 11:04 am

    These are some helpful and informative tips. It is important to have balance in spending and savings.

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    Melanie williams
    January 14, 2020 at 3:16 pm

    There are some really good points here. I feel reducing debt is deffo of key importance x

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    Clarice
    January 14, 2020 at 6:00 pm

    I can totally relate to what you’re saying and yes, FI/RE is one of my goals too. I am trying to pay off all the debts right now while increasing our savings. It’s a bit hard but we’re trying to accomplish that by sticking to a budget — that is sooooo hard to do.

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      admin
      January 15, 2020 at 1:30 am

      Oh Lord…the budget. I tell everyone to not kill themselves if they deviate *a bit* from their budget. Don’t forget to enjoy life too and not deprive yourself of essential items because of savings.

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    Cynthia / Adventuring Woman
    January 16, 2020 at 9:45 pm

    I’m not exactly a Millennial, but these are helpful tips for anyone of any age. That FI/RE thing sounds a little kooky to me. I’m all for retiring early, but you gotta enjoy your life while you’re living it. I’m not interested in self-deprivation either. No heat? Nooooo thanks! 😉

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      admin
      January 17, 2020 at 5:18 am

      Right!?? No heat or winter boots because you wanna save $50?? Ok, that’s very wild. I’m all for savings but at the expense of actually living life and enjoying it? Nah. I think I’m more of a slow FIRE, at this point. Thanks Cyn!

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    Lisa fucci
    January 24, 2020 at 2:20 am

    Yolo is hard!!! Especially when you see death often. But the future is worth planning for. Especially when you have kids.

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    Elizabeth O
    January 25, 2020 at 12:54 pm

    A lot of young people don’t think of financial planning until they start a family. It is wise to start early and build a nest egg.

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    Kristine Nicole Alessandra
    February 10, 2020 at 11:00 pm

    I am glad I found this post. My two eldest children are workaholics – going on overtime, working weekends and holidays because they said they want to save money. I worry that they are going to burn themselves out. My daughter is saving for her son’s college education while my eldest son wants to save money to start a business. He says he doesn’t picture himself to be a “corporate slave” for the rest of his life. It is good though that I see them “splurge” sometimes by taking short trips out of town. I am going to send the link to this post to them.

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      admin
      February 11, 2020 at 12:01 am

      Thank you, Kristine! Please also remind them to save as well and take advantage of cashback apps and such that will accumulate money for them to use to start a biz or emergency savings.

  • Reply
    Melanie williams
    February 11, 2020 at 11:36 am

    I hear you on this one sticking to a budget is sometimes required but can be hard. Happy New Year by the way xx

    • Reply
      admin
      February 12, 2020 at 2:21 am

      Happy New Year to you too, Melanie! A budget is definitely hard but don’t forget to enjoy your money too while budgeting and saving.

  • Reply
    Michael
    April 30, 2020 at 11:25 pm

    Thankful my parents were strict on us being debt free. just do what you can or work hard for it. Don’t go out of your limit.

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    Charlotte Petit Noble
    May 1, 2020 at 4:06 pm

    Very valuable tips. I have a group of mompreneurs that are always looking for great ways to manage their money. I will definitely share this post with them.

    • Reply
      admin
      May 4, 2020 at 12:19 am

      Thanks Charlotte! Hope the resources help.

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    Lori Bosworth
    May 1, 2020 at 10:59 pm

    I think reducing your debt load is the best way to save money. Interest rates on credit cards are so high that you need to pay down your debt to save money.

    • Reply
      admin
      May 4, 2020 at 12:18 am

      Most people now are using the temporary 0% interest rates (in U.S.) to pay down or consolidate debt.

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    Maysz
    May 2, 2020 at 4:49 am

    Financial planning is so hard if you are the bread winner of the family like me however having a discipline and self control can help you to save money.

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    Kristine Nicole Alessandra
    May 2, 2020 at 6:36 am

    I would rather go for FI/RE than YOLO. Honestly, I have been saving up so much to prepare for retirement. We do splurge sometimes, but it would be for things that we can actually use for a long time – like a new fridge, a room renovation, etc. Vacations? yes, we do take vacations but only the ones we can afford. I am glad my children have followed our example and they know how to handle their own money wisely.

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      admin
      May 4, 2020 at 12:17 am

      So glad your kids are managing money well. One has to do what works best for them and some FIRE tactics have one literally living in poverty just to sock away 80% of your income monthly. If you can live rent free and have free food and bills, FIRE can be a dream.

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    Shar
    May 2, 2020 at 12:09 pm

    Debt is a blessing when it helps you to achieve more (eg. loan for building a better future). But if not managed properly, can be a real nightmare.

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      admin
      May 4, 2020 at 12:15 am

      Agree!

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    Anirban Panda
    May 3, 2020 at 10:28 am

    I’m going to follow the tips as I’m just about to start my career.

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      admin
      May 4, 2020 at 12:15 am

      Good one, Anir! You really need to begin saving and investing with your first paycheck.

  • Reply
    Nina
    May 4, 2020 at 10:58 am

    i should be Investing and saving for the future. Financial planning can be challenging at times

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    Viano
    November 23, 2020 at 6:23 pm

    I was so certain FIRE represented flames till I read the post. In my opinion, tudent loans and credit cards are the worst types of debts one can imagine. But this post offers practical steps to managing finances. It’s very detailed and informative. Keep writing, darling.

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    Dani
    November 23, 2020 at 9:27 pm

    I wish early on- after High School I would have gotten information like this. People don’t talk to young people about these types of things. Investing is so important. Thanks for sharing. Great insight and details.

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    Indya | The Small Adventurer
    November 24, 2020 at 6:51 am

    I think it’s great to be teaching younger generations about money and saving, etc – AND to be encouraging us to pay back our loans ASAP, as it sucks to have those student loans always hanging over our heads – but, personally, I would hate to retire in my 30s or 40s. I LOVE working! I don’t even have a fancy job or career, I’ve only ever worked in retail and fast food, but I love working with customers and in fast-paced environments, and when my work closed for 4 months due to COVID, I was crushed. Everyone around me was so worried about me because they know how much I love work. Of course, I have a million hobbies that kept me busy at home – and I know that once you retire, travel is always an option – but I don’t think I’d like to retire until I’m past my 40’s at the EARLIEST. Especially considering my epilepsy may continue to get worse and worse, and I’d like to work while I still can!

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    Melanie williams
    November 24, 2020 at 12:12 pm

    Saving is so important now more than ever, as you never know when you may need that emergency fund x

    • Reply
      admin
      November 25, 2020 at 8:02 am

      Exactly. Melanie! We’ve seen how savings were crucial to survival these pandemic months.

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    Shar
    November 24, 2020 at 12:14 pm

    I’m not a millennial but found your blog post very helpful. It’s a well-detailed description of what millennials live and experience with tips.

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      admin
      November 25, 2020 at 8:01 am

      Thanks a mil, Shar!

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    Nkem
    November 24, 2020 at 12:16 pm

    I exist between FIRE and YOLO as most people do. I just put most income into savings and spend how I want with what I keep for leftovers and that way I don’t have to worry about a budget that stresses me out to stick to. I think having an abundance mindset really helps in these matters.

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      admin
      November 25, 2020 at 8:01 am

      You’re so right, Nkem. I’m aiming to be financially independent too. but these student loans lol. At the same time, I love travel and experiences and what best time to do them than at our prime age? My bills and rent are pretty much constant so I know how much those are monthly; anything else is extra that I budget for. I’ve seen pics of older couples asleep on a gondola in Venice. Imagine saving up for that experience after years only to not enjoy it because of fatigue.

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    Britt K
    November 24, 2020 at 5:50 pm

    I really enjoyed reading this. I’ve heard a lot of talk about FIRE and I think we’re all familiar with the YOLO mindset. However, I am a firm believer that a balance of the two is the key to happiness. You never know what tomorrow may bring and there’s no point in completely denying yourself any pleasures in life to plan for a tomorrow you may not get. However, at the same time, I want to be responsible and take steps to ensure that I’m able to take care of myself down the road. Finding that balance isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it!

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      admin
      November 25, 2020 at 7:58 am

      You’re SPOT ON, Britt! If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s that we should live for the moment as tomorrow or next week isn’t guaranteed…but at the same time, who wants to be in crushing debt and working just to pay bills at an older age? *shudder*

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    Eric Gamble
    November 24, 2020 at 9:15 pm

    How very intriguing this debate is between FIRE & YOLO. I had never heard of the acronym FIRE before but I kind of like it. As the creator of the Bucket List Project, of course I know YOLO (though I secretly hate that Acronym) and essentially live by it through and through. But to be honest why does it have to be separate?
    Why can’t becoming financially sound and free lead to a lifestyle of chasing down your bucket list dreams! In fact, while taking on many of the financial Personal Growth Bucket List Items you discuss above (like getting rid of my student loans & all credit cards) it actually became part of my weapons to do extreme activities and bucket list adventures.
    So I love that you are helping educate the millennials on becoming financially free. If you are truly a bucket lister or YOLO type, you probably wont EVER Retire Early cause it isnt in your personality….But you can become totally F.I.

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      admin
      November 25, 2020 at 7:56 am

      Totally agree on all this, Eric! I think the “retire early” folk are couples with kids who want to be able to be present in their children’s lives and activities and not miss out because they’re chasing the almighty $$. Financially independent folks also crave the free time to do all those YOLO travel activities and experiences too.

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    LiveLoveAndAdventure
    November 27, 2020 at 1:56 am

    Budgeting and saving are so important. This pandemic should be a wake up call for many. People.

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